Sadness flies away on the wings of time
Jean de La Fontaine
August 29th - time heals
It has been said, time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain intime, the mind protectingits sanity covers then with scar tissue and the pain lessons. But it is never gone.
We haveall heard, it’ll all get better in time, but I’ve leaned that yes, the pain is less, but I’m still brokenhearted with the death of my loved ones.
Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.
Sadly my family has had 3 deaths and I still miss DDH, DS#1 and one of my grandsons, our little Pumpkin every day. I didn’t just bounce back from losses likethat. Eventually it didn'thurt as much, the pain was less, but they will never be forgotten. Time won’t change the fact thatI’ll never be able to hear their voice, or that they’ll never be a part of this growing and loving family. Time doesn’t heal, ACCEPTANCE DOES. When we accept the situation as it is. Then we can heal and move on.
As hard as it seems, It is what it is and life goes on.
I think we’ve all learned to appreciate each other more and the time we have to spend with each other.
Say what you will, tis better tobe left than never to have been loved.