Don’t complain to others about your troubles. Half of them don’t care and the other half are glad.
April 10th- I can’t complain, but sometimes I still do…
My days of whining and complaining about others have come to an end. Nothing is easier than fault finding. All it will do is discolor my personality as that none will want to associate with me. That was my old life. No more.
Whining prevents people from giving a better response to the the difficulties they experience on their long and sometimes tedious journey of life. Our response to what happens can make all the difference.
Grumbling, rebellion and discontent are a way of life for some . They are all excuses and they remove your ability to be happy in life. Complaining can often feel easier than trying to fix a problem. And once we start it can become a habit and before long we don’t even notice how much we do it.
Whining has never solved anything. I recently stood in line at the grocery store and listened to the check out clerk whine about how they had to work and couldn’t go visit a close relative in the hospital. They told the lady in front of me all about it and they told me about it and as I was leaving, I heard them telling the people that were in line behind me. It was the exact same story over and over again. I could tell that it really bothered them, but I wondered why they hadn’t just called off work for the day and gone to visit their loved one.
Whining cannot solve your problems and complaining to others who cannot do anything about it, is a waste of your time and the time of others too.
Realize the if you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.
Anthony J. D'Angelo