It takes hands to build a house, but only hearts can build a home.

Author Unknown

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Chapter 3, Page 23, Book 16

To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded. 

Ralph Waldo Emerson

Wednesday, March 23rd - Today is known as Spy Wednesday because on this day Judas made a bargain with the high priest to betray Jesus for 30 silver pieces.

One of you will betray me. ‘You’ is his closest, dearest followers and friends. They are like family to him. They are perplexed. Family and friends don't betray each other. Except, they do. That is the way of the world, people betraying each other. And not only have you and I been betrayed even by those we love, but if truth be told, you and I have betrayed them. 

Betrayal leaves us at a fork in the road. We can choose to act in ways that either favor or impede personal growth: we can become stuck in a bad moment forever or we can put it behind us for good. We decide our path.

 Remember the phrase, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.  Never forget it! Whether you’ve been betrayed or not, don’t resort to betraying another. If you’re unhappy in your relationship, simply move on. But do not knowingly deceive or mislead to satisfy your ego. Revenge only traps you in a cycle of recurring action.

A painstaking experience, betrayal is felt by all in time. But whether we remain trapped in the emotions of betrayal or we break through its barriers becomes our choice. 

There is always a lesson of a lifetime to learn in every betrayal.    

 Edmond Mbiaka

The final step in overcoming the pain of betrayal is that of forgiveness. When we forgive someone, we are really giving ourselves a gift. Especially when people intentionally inflict pain on us, our withholding of forgiveness hurts us more than it does them. To forgive someone is to give up our right to vengeance. We acknowledge that their act was wrong, we might be more careful in trusting them with certain issues, but we do not attempt to get back at them. 

Betrayal is a robbing of security through a breaking of trust. We can overcome the heartache it causes by giving our pain to God. We call the betrayal for what it is, reconsider our personal boundaries, and recognize that only God is truly trustworthy. We tell Him our pain and allow Him to handle those who would hurt us. 

One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it’s guilt, anger, love, loss or betrayal. Change is never easy. We fight to hold on and we fight to let go.

Author Unknown


betty said...

That last quote is so true, we do need to let go of things or they will literally eat us up alive with bitterness, worry, anxiety, etc. Trust God and give it all to him, no matter hard it can be to do so. It always amazes me with Jesus that he knew from the beginning Judas would betray him, yet he treated Judas the same as the others. I know I couldn't do that.


jack69 said...

Good entry. Easy to read and possible understand, But so hard for us humans to put into practice. Sorta sad, that. But He still loves us!

jack69 said...

And inthe beginning I thought I was going to get one on 'laughing is good medicine!'

But in the end I got a good laugh at myself anyway!

Love from the back woods of North CArolina with a big bandage...